frequently asked questions
After reviewing what admittedly must seem like several volumes of information covering so many different facets of sex work, do you still find yourself unsure of what services I offer? Or maybe you have some other pressing question about me or my services? If you do, I have good news! I won't make you to read my entire site again. Please feel free to simply text, e-mail, or phone me anytime of the day! If I'm not sleeping, I promise that I will reply, or answer. I always love to hear from past, current, as well as future clients! But, maybe before you do, there is a chance that the answer could be waiting to be discovered right here on my page of frequently asked questions!.
I present this section in a manner which is somewhat blunt. My apologies if you find this at all offensive. I do not intend the information on this page to be gratuitously offensive. I have simply attempted to deliver these important topics in a way which is easy-to-comprehend, straight-forward, and educational. It's been my experience, that when people write 'in code', either trying to be politically correct, or in an attempt the keep things 'on the downlow', it ends up only confusing everyone. This can easily lead to misunderstandings, especially in individuals with whom I do not share a common language. In my line of work, this can have implications ranging from awkward embarrassment, to physical violence. for this reason, I try and keep things as simple, and explanatory as I am able. I am certain you'll agree, that in this case a little straight-talk is easier to tolerate than the potential consequences.
I'm starting off with a few of the most commonly asked questions which I have received over my four+ years working as an escort. I will be updating this page regularly, so please let me know if there's a question you believe should be added. thanks!
The first portion of this page can also be found on the 'services' page of this website
Q: Could you describe yourself? What are your measurements?
Standing only five feet (5'0") in height, I'm pretty short when compared to the majority of my clients! but, we all know that can be useful for certain activities... Especially if you're six feet plus! ;) To be completely honest, I am unsure of my exact weight, but that's okay, as I'm not so sure i'd tell you if I knew...
My 100% real, and recent measurements, as of May 13, 2018 are 38DDD-29-42 . My breasts are not natural , they are enhanced therefore quite firm, perky, and very large.
I am in no way out to trick anyone. I hate to disappoint, or fall short of anyone's expectations. So if you're looking for a girl who is slim, and tight, and that is something which you consider to be a 'must-have' quality, then I'm not your girl. However, if you're looking for a girl who's petite in stature, but has a perfect amount of 'a little extra' all-over... A girl who makes for an incredible partner for cuddling, or for other various activities which are very intimate in nature... Then I doubt you could really find anyone better!
I guess i would describe myself as a thick girl, with very ample curves, which match my proportionally round ass, and disproportionally huge boobs ... absolutely perfectly!
Q: What services can I expect during my visit?
I consider myself to be a free-spirited, open-minded individual. I offer 'all-inclusive' full service with very few restrictions... But what exactly do I mean by 'all-inclusive'?
Will you be entitled to free meals, and drinks during our time together? Well, unfortunately, no. Please allow me to shed a little light on precisely what I mean when I say 'all-inclusive'. My brand of 'all-inclusive' may include some things you like even more than free meals, and complementary alchoholic beverages! While I know that was a foolish thing for me to say, I'm still almost certain there's a few things in her you'll like almost as much as free food, and complimentary booze... and yes, maybe even a little more!
I don't have an extras menu, I do not 'up-sell', and I do not offer 'massage only' rates. There is only one fee, payable at the beginning of your session. After taking care of the initial payment, you have my personal guarantee that there will be no more charges, or any talk of a financial nature. This is mainly due to the fact that I believe the flow of a session plays a crucial role in the overall experience you have while you are in my company. I feel that discussing topics of a business nature, serves to do nothing more than to ruin this flow and to zap the intensity of a session... and I'm of the opinion that is not a good thing!
my full-service sessions may include:*
BBBJ (bareback blow job, blow job without a condom)
DATY (performing oral sex on me, licking pussy)
COF (cum on my face, facial)
LFK (light french kissing)
MSOG (multiples, cum as many times as you're able, in the time for which you've paid)
COB (cum on body)
COT (cum on tits)
GFE (more intimate girlfriend experience-includes kissing, cuddling,conversation etc. does NOT mean bareback)
CSPSE (CherrySoda Porn Star Experience)
Some of my clients find the fact they may have a portion (or the entirety) of their session video recorded makes them feel just like a real porn star! That however, is only the beginning...
I will then, edit the footage into something closely resembling a real-life adult film. The final edited version will then be posted here on cherrysoda.ca, as well as to the Internet's top porn tubes, xvideos.com, xhamster.com youporn.com, xxnx.com, and pornhub.com. Then things start to really get fun...
Since posting my first three videos on xvideos.com in May 2015, I have become a bit of a sensation in the realm of amateur porn. I currently have an online library of 79 videos. Because of people re-posting my videos to countless different porn sites, (I have found my videos posted on 200+ different adult sites) it has become impossible to compile a 100% accurate total view count for my videos. However, a very conservative estimate, would be well over 12 million views. On xvideos.com alone, my videos have been viewed 8.5 million times, earned my channel nearly 19,000 subscribers, as well as placed me at number 30 on the xvideos.com list of the Top 100 Porn Stars In Canada. Are you starting to see just how authentic my PSE actually is?
There is truly something to be said for being able to go online, navigate to your favourite porn site, and actually relive the experience we shared. Anytime of the day, you'll be able to watch yourself in action, and revel in the knowledge that the very video in which you co-star will eventually be seen by millions of people, the world over... Is that real enough for you?
Have I convinced you that my PSE is by far the most realistic Porn Star Experience available in Victoria, or basically anywhere? No? Well, what if I told you I offer my brand of PSE at no additional charge? Remember when I mentioned the fact I don't upsell? I hope this proves it.
...just don't get too excited just yet. As with most of life's best things, this one comes with a small catch.
Please allow me to get very real for a second... It's 2018, and women everywhere are finally coming together, and standing up against the oppression, inequality and violence from which we have suffered at the hands of men since basically our species' beginning. Not only is the adult film industry part of this widespread problem, it is one of the biggest promoters of violence against women... Especially when it comes to one of the most heinous forms of abuse against women, sexual assault.
Since the dawn of online sharing, the adult film industry has watched its market share plummet. Many industry insiders have stated that 80 percent of the adult studios which existed during the industry's peak in the mid-2000s, are now defunct, and much of the remaining 20 percent is hanging by a thread. To grab as much of the remaining market share as possible, studios began a dangerous game of one-upmanship.
Realizing their customer's hunger for "extreme" porn, adult studios began to produce content that featured males acting out in a much more aggressive, and at times even violent manner toward their female co-stars. Violent acts, such as choking, face-slapping, face-fucking, fishhooking, and weird eyelid stretching which once mainly lurked in porn's dark fringe, became not only the mainstream, and the new normal.
Faced with a worsening financial crunch, studios began tightening their belts in dramatic fashion. Performer salaries have languished under a pay freeze for years, while studios continued to ask much more from their female performers. The desperate studios were now putting constant pressure on their producers and directors to turn out content increasingly extreme in nature. Feeling they could end up losing job opportunities if they couldn't deliver the product the studio requested, the pressure rolled downhill to the performers... In particular, the female performers.
That which were once presented in the form of optional requests, had morphed into demands and ultimatums. The hardline on consent was beginning to blur, due to the very controversial policy which states no performer shall receive payment for a shoot until they've record the interview segment which follows most scenes. These "interviews", where they say "That was so much fun! Of course, everything was agreed upon, and fully consensual!", are there to protect the director and studio, should any performer decide upon further reflection, they actually aren't alright with some parts of the shoot... Particularly in the area of consent.
Like most people likely would, actresses just say "fuck it", and shoot the "it was all good" testimonial, because if they do not, they don't get paid for that shoot, and could even find themselves blacklisted, severely effecting the amount of films they're offered, as well as their livelihood in general.
To many production crews, "No Means No", one of the main moral cornerstones in all types of alternative lifestyles, has become more of an annoyance than something worthy of cutting scene. This couldn't be more unacceptable, and unless porn welcomes far more invasive government scrutiny and increased regulation, the industry needs to take action immediately.
I think the acceptance of adult films into society's mainstream has been a positive thing. However, the industry must realize that with acceptance, comes an increased public profile. What was once privileged information, has become public knowledge, and society simply will not accept performers being sexually, physically and emotionally assaulted or in some instances, even raped in their workplace.
The sad thing is that there is an element of society who feel they are above the law, due to their level of importance at their workplace, or their level of celebrity. Over the past year, massive gains have been made, but not much change has been observed in the adult film industry. Everyone... From the production studios, to the performers, right down to the fans and consumers must stand up and demand change. Adult film performers are people too... and deserve the same rights and privileges enjoyed by the rest of society.
Therefore ..Sorry boys, but there will be no deepthroat induced eye-watering, tear-stained mascara, gallons of saliva, fake sex-noises or pretend orgasms here. Let's try and have some real-world fun instead, shall we? Maybe you agree that a 'porn-star experience' should be about a lot more than over-the-top sex noises, overtly sexually aggressive behaviour, high-speed slobbery gag-filled blowjobs, and bad acting? If not... Knock yourself out! I just hope you have a photographic memory, because the search for another girl who will allow your session to be recorded, could be quite exhaustive. Especially, a girl who agrees without you being required to pay an extra fee that only a select few could ever afford
-While I don't mind creative editing, or the POV style of filming, I do have a distinct dislike of any form of facial mask. Therefore, whether you own the venerable, not to mention overused, eye mask of 'The Lone Ranger', your kid's goblin mask from last Hallowe'en, or a black leather S&M gimp mask, please resist the desire to bring it... Because honey, you won't be wearing that ridiculous thing here...
(if you're unable to find what you're interested in on this site, please ask me if it is a service I offer before we meet)
*Delivery of the above mentioned services is dependent upon my partner's level of hygiene in each given area. some services are also dependent on the level of comfort which you instil in me. So please remember, if you are hoping to receive my full list of offered services, please ensure you are freshly showered for our meeting, and you conduct yourself in a manner indicative of a gentleman. Please show respect for me, as well as any requests I make during our time together.
I should also mention that I reward gentlemanly behaviour... It's likely in the best interest of clients who wish to receive everything which I offer to remember this information, and conduct yourself in a gentlemanly manner at all times while in my company.
(For those who for whatever reason, interpreted the preceding statement to be an offer of bareback sex, in appreciation of a client who treats me with respect, and follows my rules... Sorry, but such is not the case. Bareback sex is never an option which I will offer, no matter how well you treat me, and regardless of the amount of compensation offered.)
Q: Do you offer greek?
After a great deal of soul-searching, deliberation, and uncharacteristically hypocritical behaviour, I've decided to finally stop waffling on the issue of anal sex up until now, I've taken a wait -and see attitude, and my policy on this subject was wishy-washy at best.
I always try my absolute best to please every client. Every time. Period. I will go the extra mile to ensure this happens, and try to always be a good sport, usually willing to try anything which falls within my comfort zone.
The thing about greek is that it was forcing me to break one of my most important rules, and the way I conduct my service.I refuseto not choose favourites, or discriminate against anyone. I refuse to allow myself to exclude a person from obtaining my services due to race, age, gender, stereotypical attractiveness, or social class.
I will refuse service to an individual if:
-they give me any reason to be concerned about my safety
-they seem to be excessively intoxicated
-they had disrespected me at any time we were together, or communicating beforehand
-I have, or have had personal dealings with them at any point in my life, on a non-escort basis
Obviously, the last one has varying degrees, as in, if you rang my order through at the grocery store, I'll probably still see you, but if I had worked with you while I was in the military, I will not.
What does all of this have to do with anal sex, you ask?
Well, I only felt comfortable providing clients this service, if they fell within a particular group of parameters. Unfortunately, this meant that I had to exclude many of my clients. The reasons weren't only the obvious physical limitation of a large penis, but also their overall attitude, how forward they were, the level of respect which they showed, their willingness to follow direction, and their understanding of the most important concept of all... No means no.
All of these factors combined, meant I was excluding some, while others were included, and I decided that situation was unacceptable. Therefore, I will not be offering anal sex to any of my clients from this moment on.
My sincere apologies to those who truly desire this service, but I have strong opinions when it comes to what passes as fair in this business, and I refuse to knowingly act in a hypocritical fashion. There are many fine providers, right here in Victoria, who's ability to offer this service on a universal basis makes me truly envious. I would be more than happy to provide you with the contact information of these ladies, as they are women I respect highly, and I know they will show you an unforgettable experience!
If you still think you'd like to see me, even though you'll only be able to access my front door, I'd love to see you, and I promise that I have an adequate level of skill to satisfy the most demanding of clients. Maybe even enough to make you forget I even have a back entry...;)
...and you can rest-assured that no other client will be receiving something you're being denied, because fairness, and honesty will always be two cornerstones of my approach to providing my top-notch services.
Q: What services do you not offer? What are your restrictions?
The activities on my restrictions list are explicitly non-negotiable. If, during your time with me, you choose to petition me with arguments of why I should partake in one of these activities with you, I will request that you refrain from requesting services which I do not offer. If you continue to pester me with requests to do things I have made clear I do not participate in, your session will be terminated, and I will ask you to leave immediately.
My list of restrictions is as follows:
BBFS (bareback full service, sex without a condom)
For all activities involving penetrative intercourse, (vaginal sex) a condom shall be used. No exceptions. Ever.
I really can't stress this enough... And I don't care to hear your twisted rationalizations on this, either. Unprotected sex with a sex worker is extremely reckless behaviour. I respect my personal safety, along with the safety of my clients far too much, to partake in such an insanely senseless act.
Speaking of twisted rationalizations and senselessness, here is a very popular list which I've received repeated requests to repost, since it was removed from my etiquette section last year. The reason for it's popularity is obviously the list's too-far-fetched-not-to-be-fiction content, combined with the high level of sarcasm with which it was composed.
While I completely understand how this list could be seen as hilarious, it is actually quite serious. All of the following lines were actually used on me, in the hope they would convince me to forgo my condom policy, and have bareback sex with them.
Please enjoy the the stupidity of this list, but please heed the warning it provides as well. There actually are people out there who are either completely ignorant, oblivious to the extreme risks involved with engaging in unprotected sex with high-risk individuals. Or, are just so reckless, they simply don't care about their own safety, nor about the safety of anyone else... Remember, that could even be you.
One last time, let me state that I will not entertain the suggestion of bareback sex. It doesn't matter how many times you ask, how much money you offer or what sort of "genius" logic you try and dazzle me with.
So, let's be safe out there, boys and girls! We can all take care of one other, by simply taking care of ourselves!
finally, the list...
I don't care if...
you "just got tested" (Supporting documents are easily forged, and it's still not happening)
you exclaim, "I'm married!" (You're not only trying to bareback me, and how do you know your wife is faithful? )
I'm "the only ho" you see (Sure I am. Anyway, this concludes your final visit.)
it will "feel so much better" (Probably the best example of common knowledge in existence.)
you ask to "just put the tip in" (Silly me! What could be on the tip?)
you ensure me I'm fine, "cuz (I'm) on birth control" ( Again... Not pregnancy I'm worried about)
you "just got out of jail", so you "gotta be clean" (Of course! There's no sex in jail, it's all guys.. . )
I deny your golden shower request, it's not "bareback time" (Never in your wildest dreams, Doctor)
finally, my all-time favourite...
"I'll wear a condom right until I'm about to cum, then can I just blow it inside you?" (Fucking genius!)
NOTE: If you think it's a 'good idea' to remove a condom during sex, just because a girl isn't looking... Think again. Such clueless behaviours can carry consequences far worse than unwanted pregnancy, or contracting an infection. In addition to the high risk of STI transmission associated with having unprotected sex, your thoroughly disgusting actions can also net you serious charges under Canada's Criminal Code. These range from sexual assault, all the way up to rape . So, if you're a douchebag, who's favourite trick involves the before mentioned sleight-of-hand, I highly recommend you look elsewhere for your jollies. Because, if I catch you pulling this trick with me, you may end up experiencing the grandest 'disappearing act' of all. (Just to clarify, I'm talking about the effect legal repercussions can have on your freedom... Not your penis.)
BDSM (bondage, domination, sado-masochism, a.k.a. 'kink')
I'm often asked, 'are you fetish friendly?' No. Well yes, just not according to your narrow definition...
What I mean, is that just like every other adult human, I have certain things which turn me on a lot more than I generally get turned on. That is what a fetish is, and we all have them. There are something like, fifteen-thousand identified fetishes, but there is a rather large group of folks who prescribe to a common misconception, which I'd like to clear up right now... While the group of fetishes known collectively as BDSM, are in fact, fetishes, THERE ARE OTHERS. Many, many, many others. So please, don't ask me if I'm 'fetish friendly', because I honestly won't have a clue to which of the several thousand fetishes you are referring. Actually, let me guess... BDSM? Anyhow, the answer is no.
I will not entertain any acts which involve tying me up, or anything which will restrict my movements in any manner, such as ropes, handcuffs, or any other type of restraints. I also will not tolerate any type of physical violence. This includes biting, punching, slapping, pinching, scratching, kicking, hair pulling, choking, wrestling whipping, flogging, or anything else which results in physical pain. If you choose to ignore this rule, I will give you one friendly warning. If the unacceptable behaviour continues, I will consider your actions as a personal assault. This is completely unacceptable not to mention illegal. Your session will be immediately terminated at that moment. If your session was an in call, you will be asked to leave immediately. If our session was an out call, I will leave immediately. Absolutely no refunds will be offered,or issued, no matter how much time remains in your session. If I consider the violence to be of an excessive nature, I will contact the police, and file an assault charge. Anyone who commits an act of violence against me, which I deem to be of an unacceptable nature, will incur the consequences I have mentioned. You've been warned.
Oh, while we're on the subject of fetishes... No, I will not see you with an unclean, unwashed ass. I try not to be judgemental of what others happen to be into, but this one's a little too much for me, and something with which I am just not comfortable... and yes, that means at any price. Some things in life are far more important than money.
CIM (cum in mouth)
I'm sorry, but you may not, under any circumstance, cum in my mouth. While I consider the risks associated with giving a BBBJ to a client who is freshly showered, to lie within my personal comfort zone , I am not comfortable with the added risks associated with having a mouthful of your semen. If your next thought is to say, 'just swallow it then'... Forget it. I don't swallow either. (see below) If you do cum in my mouth, consider your session's MSOG privileges revoked. Your session will be immediately terminated, without a refund of any kind. You will also be placed on my blacklist, as well as those of all ladies within my safety network.
NOTE: Claiming that you climaxed in my mouth 'by accident', is not an acceptable excuse. You've had thousands of orgasms, and you've been having them since you were like, twelve years old. Please do not even try to insult my intelligence by telling me you had 'no idea' you were about to cum, because I know by now you are well-aware of when an orgasm is imminent... In fact, I'm certain there are few things you probably know better.
SWALLOWING (please see above, in CIM )
DATO (rimming, ass licking, giving or receiving)
The reason I do not offer this service can be summed-up in one word: Parasites. No thanks.
DEEPTHROAT (includes "throat fucking", "face-fucking" and all other forms of 'active' oral sex)
Just because I've entertained it with other clients, and it appears in a few of my videos, doesn't automatically mean I wish to engage in this particular activity with you. The individuals in my videos, had proven to me on different occasions that they knew the meaning of "no" and "slow down". They had already proven to me that they'd respect my wishes, even when they weren't a direct reflection of their own. Respectful gentleman usually get whatever they desire with me (within reason)... in time. I basically never bend on any of my rules the first time we meet, and with some, (such as BBFS) I will never bend. Please don't think, 'well, I'm different', because you are only going to end up disappointed... and I hate disappointing any of my clients.
GS/SCAT ( golden showers: urine, piss play, watersports scat: feces, shit play, hardsports)
To each their own. but in my eyes... These activities lie well outside my comfort zone, and in my opinion, raise too many serious health and safety concerns. I'm sorry, but I must respectfully pass on these. Thanks, but no thanks.
Q: I've searched your entire site, but have not found your extras menu!?
The reason you've been unable to find an extras menu anywhere on my site, is most likely due to the fact I don't have one. I simply don't believe offering extras would add in any positive manner to my service. As I mention in my response to the first question of this page, I believe that taking time in the middle of a session to discuss matters of a financial/business manner, can only serve to disrupt your session's natural flow, potentially spoiling our time together, or at least making it less enjoyable than I could have been ...an outcome I consider to be simply unacceptable. My number one priority is to ensure every client has a top quality experience while they are in my company, each and every time. The few extra dollars I would earn from offering extras aren't worth compromising the quality of my services, or the time we spend together.
As well, it is my opinion that extras can be a total cash-grab, as well as a rip-off. I charge what I feel is a fair price for my time, and that is the only commodity for which I charge. Another issue I have with extras, is the fact that they are often purchased at the height of sexual excitement... Not exactly the pinnacle of clear-headed thinking in most males. It's far too easy for a client to get carried away, ending up spending more money than they could afford... Sometimes, much more.
Sure. there are some girls who couldn't care less if they drove their clients straight into homelessness. Adversely, I would never be able to live with myself, if I played a role in any clients' downfall. I care immensely for each client I've been blessed to have, and I certainly would never want to even be a small part of the reason they were unable to pay rent, provide for their families, or any other sort of financial commitment. Quite honestly, I would much rather go hungry, than to be even partially responsible for a client getting in over their head with financial difficulty.
Q: When did you become an escort, and what is involved in the process?
Q: What motivated you to become a sex worker?
Q: What was your employment background before entering sex work?
One Friday night, in late June of 2012, I was relaxing at home, having just wrapped up another unfulfilling and frustrating week at work. Only three weeks earlier, I had undergone breast enhancement surgery, and turned my dull, and lifeless C cups, into a set of huge-and-perky DDDs. Once enough time had finally passed and they were no longer sore from the surgery, I was feeling rather adventurous extremely horny.
Since around age fourteen, I'd had a definite interesting sex work, because I felt it was something I would enjoy. I had always been very promiscuous girl, ever since losing my virginity at age twelve. So, that Friday, I decided to run an ad of my own on backpage.com. My first night consisted of many inquiries, and one booked appointment. Unfortunately, the client cancelled... The night ended up being a little bit of a flop.
Undaunted, I awoke the next morning to numerous texts. Let's just say that Saturday still stands as one of the busiest days I've ever had. The Sunday was busy as well. I found the work thrilling, and something I really enjoyed!. All of this made my next decision an easy one...
In June, 2012, I found myself closing in on the ten-year mark of a career spent in the Avionics Systems Technician trade, as a member of the Royal Canadian Air Force. Unfortunately, I was finding myself at odds with policies within the Canadian Forces more, and more with each passing month. Six months earlier, I had been promoted to the rank of Master Corporal. This meant I was no longer simply a worker, I was now a working leader. After ten years of taking orders from questionable leadership, I couldn't bear to be part of an obviously broken system, which I alone could not fix.
My job satisfaction/happiness level had reached critical levels, and the emotional discomfort, once felt only while at work, was beginning to spill over into everyday life. I had started to dread going to the hangar every morning. My job was no longer benefitting me, and had become detrimental to my overall outlook. It was changing my once positive view of life, which filled with increasing levels of negativity.
It was time to go. Looking back, it was easy to see that I was looking for a reason to leave. ...and now I had one! I submitted my release from the military that following Monday. On September 25, 2012, I was honourably discharged from the Canadian Forces.
I was once again a civillian, and so happy to be free from the overbearing shackles of military life.
NOTE: If you are an individual who is thinking about entering the field of sex work, please know the positive experience which I have enjoyed, is not typical, whatsoever. I consider myself tremendously lucky to have had the great clients with whom I have shared countless memorable encounters, over the past six years.
Even though I've seemingly had things much easier than most and despite the fact I still love my work, please don't think it's all been a walk in the park. I have had a couple asshole clients who were quite terrifying, including one who took the liberty of doing a great deal more than simply putting a scare into me. Fortunately, I'm the type of person who rolls with the punches. I wasn't about to let some random asshole's personal issues rob me of this lifestyle I love.
Following that dark event, I was back to work after only a few hours, during which I processed everything that had happened and took stock of the lessons learned. I considered methods which could mitigate a future occurrence, and how to implement said methods. I'm proud to say that it takes more than four hours of abuse at the hands of a cowardly rapist to change my opinion on the things in life which I truly adore... Besides, he is the one with serious issues. He is the one who needs help. I feel sorry for him, and sincerely hope he can one day find whatever it is he is missing, and finally take the required steps to stop living his life as a coward, and finally become a man.
I am also truly blessed to actually enjoy sex work. I know everyone says they do, but the unfortunate truth is most of the time that isn't exactly true. The general attitude I've seen, is largely based on tolerance of circumstances . This makes it difficult to do a job which places a such a tremendous emotional and physical load on the worker. I guess I'm just think-skinned, and enough of a natural-born slut that I can revel in something many in society find immoral, and completely unacceptable.
I would like to close by stating that I, in no way encourage you, or anyone else to begin working in the sex trade. For all of it's positives, there are just as many negatives. While this field of work can be fun, and very rewarding, it can also be very frustrating, dangerous, demeaning and less than glamorous.
The clients can be dicks. You regularly get stood up. You very quickly find out the true meaning of actually having massive amounts of your time wasted. You will at some point, have to endure very hurtful comments and have the good reputation you worked so hard to build dragged through the mud on online review boards. You may have to deal with a jealous wife, or wives. The odds you will be raped, murdered, or both increase exponentially. You could be hassled at the border, and ultimately denied entrance into the United States. Most who know what you do are awkward in your presence, and start treating you like some sort of criminal. Many of your friends/family may disown you, and cut you completely out of their lives. The list goes on, and on...
Remember, this is a huge decision, with potentially massive life-long consequences. Make sure you completely weigh both sides, as this could be one of the most crucial decisions of your life, and it should never be taken lightly.
...and most importantly, only get into this line of work for reasons which matter to you. Never allow anyone to influence your reasons, or your choice. This must be 100% your choice. If you are being pressured by anyone to work in the sex trade against your will, and you are in Canada... GO TO THE POLICE. They will not take issue with you personally in any way, or punish you for anything you've done... Because you've done nothing wrong. Don't believe anyone who tries to convince you that you have. The police will help you out of the situation. They will protect you. They will ensure your safety. They will deal with the individual or individuals at fault, and do everything possible to bring them to justice.
Q: Do you actually enjoy sex work? If so, what aspect do you enjoy most?
I really do enjoy my job. Even after more than four years, I am still so happy that I finally have found a job which I truly love... So much in fact, I never take days off. I'm almost always available with one hour's notice, as long as I am not sleeping, or already have a previous commitment with a client. Better yet, is the fact I have no burning desire to be away from my work, the way I unfortunately experienced at every other job I've had over my life.
The aspect of sex work I enjoy the most, is the interaction that I have with my clients. From the moment you first contact me until we kiss goodbye, I delight in fulfilling my client's sexual desires, and helping them realize their fantasies. I have always loved pleasing others, and making people happy. This job allows me the opportunity to make that small, but important difference in my client's lives!
Q: Are there any elements of sex work which you do not enjoy?
I really dislike clients who feel they are not required to cancel their session, or give me any sort of heads-up. If something has come up, and they are unable to make their scheduled appointment. The same can be said for clients who arrive early and expect me to be able to see them ten or twenty minutes before their appointment is scheduled.
...and please, don't try to bargain or under cut me. My rates are below average, and are already represent incredible value for a girl of my quality and reputation in Victoria. Please don't disrespect me by asking if I'd be interested in an hour session for $60... Or $100, $120, $150, or $180. I do not dicker. Sorry but I'm simply not interested in such 'super-generous' offers.
Q: What sets you apart from other providers?
I'm sure that many of the clients of who's company I have enjoyed, as well as those I've never met might immediately credit my massive, enhanced 40DDD chest as being my most notable feature. I'd certainly have to agree that it is definitely my most distinct physical feature, especially when you take into consideration that I'm only five feet tall... Let's just say they truly stand out, (literally!) and that I'm quite top-heavy.
Seriously though, as much as my huge chest stands out as the one thing which makes me special in a physical sense, I really feel that the genuine manner in which I deliver my services to be the one characteristic which truly puts me in a class all of my own.
Truth be known, I'm a terrible actress, and I'm not the type of girl who would be anywhere, with anyone, if i didn't want to be. I am also not swayed by financial gain. Simply put, I see only those who i want to see, and only do what I want to do... no matter how large the offered compensation happens to be. So you can be certain that when you and I are together, I not only truly want to be there, I am also enjoying myself every bit as much as you are.
Another important difference between myself and most other providers, is the fact that while others may talk a good game in the area of "unrushed" service, when it comes to a truly unrushed experience... I am the game. I regularly go twenty or thirty minutes over the time for which my clients have provided compensation. I refuse to cut short a good time, just because of the time on a clock. I believe that sexual encounters have their own natural flow... One which is mutually dictated by those involved, and never by a clock.
Q: What is your preferred method of contact?
Ultimately, text is my preferred method of contact. I lead a pretty active lifestyle, and I'm usually out and about, or busy doing a project of some sort at my condo, so I enjoy the freedom text offers, as it does not require me to stop what i was doing. Or, if I happen to be out, not have to quickly find a private place to have a discreet phone conversation.
Email is also preferred, but if you are looking for a spur-of-the-moment thing, say, within an hour or two, I highly recommend texting, or calling me. Email sometimes fails to alert of new messages. I do my best to answer all emails the second I receive them, but if my phone or computer fails to notify me, or if I miss the notification, then I have no way of knowing your message has arrived, and therefore, you will not receive a reply until the next time I check my email. There is also always the chance your message could accidentally end up in my junk mail folder. Again, I do my best to remember to regularly check it for errant messages, but sometimes I forget in which case it may take up to a day for me to reply, or the first time i see it.
Although I find it much easier to manage my time through typed mediums, such as text or e-mail, I don't mind receiving phone calls! I enjoy the fact I am able to get a better idea on who I'll be seeing, and it's kind of a first meeting in a way. The guys who are nervous when they call are just so cute! They're nervous for no reason though, because as long as I'm shown a basic level of respect, I'm probably the sweetest escort out there. I honestly have a really hard time even getting upset at anyone, or anything!
Q: Do you have a client screening process?
I do not have a formal pre-screening process for my clients. I have always been able to gather enough information on a client during the booking process, to make my decision on whether I wish to see them, or not. I will only deny someone service if; they disrespect me, are demanding, rude, inappropriate, pushy, or verbally abusive, they don't seem to have an understanding of the word 'no', they seem to be overly intoxicated, or appear to be angry, either with myself, or in general..
Q: When visiting a client, what kind of environment do you expect?
I love bringing my exquisite services to you, via my out call service. I provide this service to any one of Victoria's many fine, reputable downtown hotels, or to residences of good reputation, in, Victoria's downtown, and surrounding areas.
My sincerest apologies, but I do not offer out call service to motels, and hotels, which have less than a three star rating. Out call service is also not available to personal residences of poor reputation. This is nothing personal against you, or your home, so please try not to take offence. This policy exists because I simply don't want anything to distract my attention away from giving you the top quality service you deserve, and I cannot do that, if I'm concerned for my safety.
On every out call, I expect a safe environment, free of drama (wives/girlfriends/roommates), where we will be able to enjoy ourselves without distraction. I don't expect a 100% germ-free environment, but a basic level of organization, and cleanliness is most appreciated... With a special emphasis on clean sheets! Thanks!
Q: Do you have any particular requirements regarding client hygiene?
While I am not psycho about it, I do expect my clients to be at an acceptable level of cleanliness when they visit me, or I am visiting them. Please do try to be presentable, dressed in clean clothes with an overall groomed appearance, and smelling fresh. I'm not a princess, and not the type to have unrealistically high expectations, but if a client hopes to receive all of the services which I offer, they should be impeccably clean. Otherwise, they could experience a slight reduction in the spectrum of services which they receive.
If you showered that morning, don't work a physical job, and didn't the gym during the day, then you should be good. Of course everyone is different, and has a unique body chemistry... So please use common sense when it comes to hygiene.
If, upon you're arrival at my condo, you do happen to be a little less than fresh, or simply like to shower before you get dirty... I always have shower facilities and clean towels available.
Thanks for reading, and remember, if there are any questions you would like me to answer, or if you feel that a particular question or answer you feel should appear on this page, I would love to hear from you! I'm available anytime I'm not resting, so please text, e-mail, or call me anytime the mood strikes!